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Year of the Mom
Posted 05/31/2007 @ 10 :28 AM

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Sybille Bammer (right) with 5-year-old daughter Tina (left).
Don’t look now, but “tennis-playing mother” may be becoming less of an oxymoron on the pro circuit again. It’s still hard to imagine a return of the days when Evonne Goolagong and Margaret Court could win Grand Slams after becoming moms, but players are once more showing that it’s possible to carve out a solid career even as the tour gets increasingly physical.

Sybille Bammer is the standout in this category, having become the most accomplished playing mother since Goolagong won Wimbledon in 1980. With 5-year-old daughter Tina and Tina’s father – an engineer who gave up his job to support Bammer – in tow, Bammer hit a career-high ranking of 23 a week ago.

She began the year by defeating Serena Williams in Hobart – at a time when no one realized that meant anything - and followed up by winning her first title at Pattaya City and reaching the semifinals of Indian Wells and Amelia Island.

The most striking element of Bammer’s second career is how much better it is than her first. Before having a child, she was a mid-200s player. Now, at 27, she’s on the verge of the Top 20. “The baby break was really good for me,” she said earlier this year. “And then I start again and I said, ‘Okay. It's my last chance and I really want to try and give my best.’”

And she's not only player making use of the daycare center here at Roland Garros. Rossana de los Rios, who has a 10-year-old daughter named Ana, played her first Grand Slam event in almost four years after making it through the qualifying.

“I am happy that she won, that the kids can play together,” said Bammer, who has known de los Rios for several years. “Tina and Ana, they are friends already. They know [each other] already for a couple of years.”

De los Rios originally retired in 1994 to marry husband Gustavo Neffe and gave birth to Ana in 1997. In 1999, she decided to return to the tour and reached the fourth round at Roland Garros in 2000.

After struggling with knee and wrist problems for most of 2005 and 2006, the 31-year-old is now healthy again and has cut her ranking to 199 from 452 just over a year ago. Her goal is to crack the Top 100 again this year.

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Rossana de los Rios (left) with 10-year-old daughter Ana Neffa (right).
She’s also keeping an eye on her daughter's budding tennis career. “We live in Miami, and she is practicing there a lot,” said de los Rios. “She likes very much to play tennis and she wants to be a professional also.”

It’s too early to judge Ana’s prospects, but if she does play professionally, she may represent the US rather than her mother’s native Paraguay.

Though touring pros have often expressed a reluctance to see their children follow in their footsteps, de los Rios is enthusiastic – “If she wants, I love to her to play.

“I didn’t ever say, ‘Ana, go and play’... She pick up a racquet and go on court and was practicing there.

“It’s so strange because when [people] in this sport have a child, it’s difficult because they know how is the life, and the life is very tough, like go in the airplane. But she like it.”

And clearly, she's already figured out exactly how things work on the circuit. When her favorite player, Serena Williams, once asked her if she wanted to be just like her mother, Ana said no – she wanted to be just like Serena, because Serena wins everything.

Still, mom does have some pull, like arranging a hitting session for her daughter with good friend Svetlana Kuznetsova.

De los Rios has experienced few problems travelling with a child. “It’s not like so tough because she is 10 years and she know everything. I’m focused on my tennis,” she said. “She start to travel when she was three years, I was very okay,”

Bammer finds things much easier now that she’s travelling with a 5-year-old rather than a toddler.

Both players have their husband/boyfriend, daughter and coach with them at most events, though Bammer plans to travel alone more once Tina begins school later this year. Both also say that the dads taking on much of the childcare responsibility is key to their being able to carry on playing.

One child is one thing. What about two?

Lindsay Lee-Waters resumed her playing career this year after having her second child and is trying to become the most accomplished playing mother of two since Court reached the Wimbledon semifinals in 1975.

The 29-year-old, currently ranked 425 but as high as 33 in 1996, is travelling with her husband-coach and their two kids, Sevyn, 6, and Heath, 1.

De lo Rios and Bammer have both noticed, with some amazement.

“I see her in a tournament before and she is doing good,” said de los Rios. “One is really hard, but two is impossible.”

Can she ever see herself doing the same? “No two, no two," she pleaded. "Just one is okay.”

Can Bammer? “No, I will not. If a second baby is coming I will retire,” Bammer laughed.  “It’s amazing that she makes a comeback again... Two kids is a lot more than only one!”

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Cool.. I actually bumped into Sybille Bammer's husband at the US Open during the qualifying rounds last year.. but didn't realize it was her husband (thought he was her boyfriend). Didn't realize they had a kid until I read it in the press later on.
Didn't know de los Rios was another 'mom' player till now.
Nice article!

piyush--Thanks.

That is Bammer's boyfriend (Christoph Gschwendtner); they're not married. De los Rios is married (husband Gustavo Neffa). Lindsay Lee-Waters is also married (husband Heath Waters).

My favourite Bammer mother-daughter moment came when Sybille was asked who Tina's favourite player is. Turns out, Tina is a fan of Martina Hingis.

children make you strong and give you a mental edge. If the other player starts throwing a antrum, yu have the authority to put them in their place.

Yes, i think two kids is just almost impossible..i know goolagong had many more injury problems after her second child and tried to come back, but was sidelined over and over by injury...

but what a great story, and who cant help but cheer for supermoms in tennis? I admit, i love the fact that these ladies are doing so well, because it brings Evonne's name back in the commentary all the time...

And then you look at a player like Kim who has retired just to get married and play with her dogs - no wonder some people are against equal pay for women - you have some women who are giving it all they have - notwithstanding children and other commitments, including injuries and yet they are making an effort because this is their career - I am not upset that Kim retired, I am just upset that she felt like she did not owe it to her fans to even make the effort - just really horrible - sorry for the rant but I just had to say that

Equal pay isn't based on desire. I think it's based on equality. At least that's the premise.

Eddy, true but if we are being honest here you look at the French Open and look at the issue of equality, come on you have women spending less than 1 hour in matches - being bageled and then you have a guy who is out there for upwards of 3-4 hours grinding away for a victory and he gets the same pay -as a woman something is just not right about that - frankly speaking it smacks of discrimination to me - that you are paying me the same as the man for doing less work just because I am a woman - the men should probably have a fit about this

Karen I totally agree with you! If the WTA players and ATP players are to be paid equally for their achievements, than women should play on the same conditions as men... only then it will be really fair! Because now it looks like this: women "work" in the same business as men do but much "shorter hours" and get the same "pay" that is true discrimination... btw there is a well known truth known to employers and that is: If you want to fire somebody and not be troubled it has to be a casual middle aged white man without a family if you fire anyone else you can be sure of being sued for discrimination... but back to the topic... look how easily a new WTA player can break into the Top50 and even higher without any real abilities which are obligatory for a Top50 ATP player... we have to be honest a male miner will work much more effectively than a female miner... men are not equal to women that is pure biology you can't argue with that...

sybille is awesome

sybille is awesome

Thank you, Kamkshi, for that informative and delightful piece. Perhaps, some people overlook a very important point which you made very clear. None of these women would have been able to continue with their careers if their husbands and boyfriend had not fully supported -- in varying ways -- their desire to do so, especially when the children are/were very young. I'm sure that these mothers would have considered it unfair to their children if they didn't have one parent who could have something more like a normal schedule with time to give to their children. There are probably not as many men as we would like who would be so cooperative.

Who knows, for example, if Kim's future husband, a professional basketball player, probably couldn't or wouldn't be able to do what these three significant others have done?

when does Lindsay Davenport have her baby?

Kevin,
I think Lindsay have her baby in June. Please correct me if I am wrong.

Peter I agree with you there. As a woman I believe in being treated fairly, but at the same time fairly to me means that I am doing the same quality work and as such I should be compensated equally. I have been looking at the score lines for the FO - and a lot of these matches have one player winning one game - 1 game -either it says a lot about how the opponent was playing or it shows the fact that these women do not know diddly squat about tennis - I raise my hat to those women who really put in the effort day in and day out, with families, young children and all the other side issues that make up life but really and truly we should not be rewarding mediocrity which is what the WTA is doing

Patrick you are correct it is June...

Karen it is nice to know that there are women with common sense... we see on the ATP Tour that players from Top20 have tough matches with players from the lower half of Top100 while on WTA Tour we see that if a player is ranked ohhh let's say around 80 place it is almost imposible for a good high level match... WTA matches of players that stand lower than WTA 50 are poor quality with some exceptions ofcourse... but let's take a look at the ATP Tour... do you remember a match R. Kendrick vs R. Nadal... although Nadal won in the end, Kendrick really made old Rafa sweat...

Oh yes I remember that match very well I look at these matches now on the women's side and I am thinking - do you really believe that you deserve equal pay - come on now - some of the top women do deserve to get the same pay as the men but some of these women I am begining to think are just playing this game because they cannot think of anything better to do - there is no effort on their part and honestly I do not think that this is what Billie Jean and other women who fought all those years ago for equality in the sport fought for - I believe the women need to put more effort into their game - they need to start pulling out all the stops and yes if you are going to get married and start having children then if this is your job then you continue to do your job and not make excuses that because you are getting married or you have become injured - the men get married, they get injured, they have families to support - matter of fact the men sometimes have it harder because here it is your career is going down the tubes you cannot win a match to save your life and you have a wife and children to support - what do you do - with these women they just give up and retire and cannot make the public have any sense of standing with them when the chips are down

Totally agree... players like Justine Henin or Jelena Jankovic are among women who deserve equal money but they are really something JuJu's technique is almost spotless and the way she can handle those overgrown muscular tanks on the tour like the Williams sisters is amazing... and Jelena Jankovic what a fighter she is, I always enjoy watching her matches because she never gives up a match... she fights to the end and that kind of attitude should be rewarded with equal pay... there is one thing I forgot about the differences of WTA and ATP... the racquets! On the WTA we can see high ranked players with "shovels" beyond 105 sq.inch. on the ATP you don't see that... but about having a family and children let's look at Justine she got married and didn't quit and what did Kim do? I'm getting married so I'm quitting... ohhhh please! Let's take Sybille Bammer she has a child and is currently ranked as number 25 in the world also she will play Justine Henin in the 4th round of a Grand Slam tournament... that only proves that if you work really hard you can get pretty good results... Does Bammer complain that it is hard for her? No! So how can does young players in full health without such responsibilities say that they have a tough life... grow up!

*emits loud, obnoxious groan* Just because some women like Bammer & Davenport choose to continue working after they have kids does NOT make them special. Why do we treat them as such???

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